Make Your Target The Center Of Attention.

To be a charmer, you have to learn to listen and observe. Let your targets talk, revealing themselves in the process. As you find out more about them, you can individualize your attention, appealing to their specific desires and needs, tailoring your flattering to their insecurities. Make them the star of the show and they will become addicted to you and grow dependent on you. Charmers fade into the background; their targets become the subjects of their interest.{Excerpted from: The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene}