Bring Antagonism Into Harmony.

Never stir up antagonisms that will prove immune to your charm; in the face of those who are aggressive, retreat, let them have their little victories. Yielding and indulgence will charm the fight out of any potential enemies. Never criticize people overtly- that will make them insecure, and resistant to change. Plant ideas, insinuate suggestions. {Excerpted from: The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene}